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San Diego

I got to San Diego today, and I'm a little embarrassed to say it's my first visit here ever
. I'm reserving judgment for at least another day, until I get my bearings and explore a bit. I will say the weather sure is nice. More later...



Posted by Sebastian / San Diego / August 29, 2007 /
 

Vancouver sun

Urban Photo, one of my fav web sites, has a great entry on English Bay sunsets
: "Each evening, then, as a sunny day fades into a brisk Pacific night, the beach at English Bay, flanked by restaurants and apartment towers, becomes the greatest kind of urban living room. Here, in a way that seems befitting of the West Coast, the granite paving stones of a piazza are exchanged for sand, well-worn grass and an asphalt promenade." At the risk of sounding sappy, sitting and watching the sunset and the streaked skies over English Bay is truly one of the most amazing "moments" in life.

Sunset over English Bay

Posted by Sebastian / Vancouver / August 28, 2007 /
 

Mixed messages

It was an interesting end to the week in Vancouver. On Thursday
The Economist named the city the world's most livable (Liam, feel free to chime in with your commentary on these surveys!) for the fifth straight year -- beating out Melbourne, Zurich, Sydney and others -- and then today the Globe and Mail reported that drug-fueled property crimes remain so epidemic in Vancouver (49,736 incidents last year!) that the city is concerned about being able to recruit enough qualified officers to combat the ugliness!

Posted by Sebastian / Vancouver / August 25, 2007 /
 

Congrats Scott and Max

Congrats to Scott and Max, who tied the knot amid pouring rain yesterday in Nova Scotia, making Scott the first-ever Canadian Member of Parliament to marry a same-sex partner.

Frank McKenna, the former Ambassador to the U.S., was at the wedding and said, "I think everybody in the room felt like they were part of a history-making event. It seemed like a validation of a long process. I think everybody who was here was very moved by the experience."

Posted by Sebastian / Marriage / Scott Brison / August 19, 2007 /
 

Congrats Chris!

In the recent Dallas mayoral campaign, it was looking like the huge Texas city stereotyped as full of big hair and bigots might wind up with a gay mayor. In the June runoff election, openly gay city councilman Ed Oakley lost 42%-58% to Turner Construction CEO Tom Leppert. And in a surprise move, Leppert, who was pegged as anti-gay throughout the campaign, this week announced his new chief of staff, WFAA-TV reporter and our BFF, the uber-gay Chris Heinbaugh.

When I first met Chris about five years ago at a party in SoHo, I distinctly recall laughing under my breath (or maybe not so under my breath) about him: after all, he was the first person I'd ever met who wore a cowboy hat to a party, and wasn't doing so as a joke. He could actually pull it off. Chris, the one and only Texan I know, is also one of the kindest and smartest people I know -- and I wouldn't have my friends any other way!

Posted by Sebastian / Etceteras / August 14, 2007 /
 

Canadian heiress, 107, lives in Cuban poverty

I thought this article was really interesting. It seems the once fabulously wealthy Canadian Mary McCarthy, whose assets are frozen in a Boston bank, is living Miss Havisham-style in Havana. While her friends fled for Miami during the 1959 revolution, she stayed behind, and today still lives in the home where, "Peacocks still strut the garden under royal palm trees, but the lawn is overgrown and the house filled with Napoleon III furniture, chandeliers and a Steinway grand piano is falling apart."

Reuters tells her interesting tale and reports that recently, at the insistence of the Canadian consul general in Boston, the U.S. has agreed to let her withdraw $96 per month from her frozen assets. "She is an unfortunate, albeit unintentional, victim of political circumstances," the consul general wrote. "She relies on charity. She deserves to live the rest of her days in comfort."

Posted by Sebastian / Etceteras / August 13, 2007 /
 

Brooke Astor is dead at 105

There's no doubt that Brooke Astor, whose last years were marred by stunning accusations of elder abuse and punctuated by the transfer of guardianship to JP Morgan Chase and Annette de la Renta, was one of the most witty souls that ever graced the streets of New York. Her lengthy obituary is an interesting read. It notes that "
Although aristocratic in upbringing, style and social milieu, she never sought to be the arbiter of society that the Astor name might have entitled her to be. She never wanted to rule over a world that she was among the first to recognize was no more."

It continued
"Mrs. Astor was a widow for 48 years. Though she had a number of suitors, she did not want to marry again. 'I just don’t want anyone tugging at my sleeve at 10 o’clock telling me it’s time to go home,' she once told her friend Marietta Tree. 'I want to go at my own speed, and it’s a lot faster than theirs.'"

The Washington Post obit mentioned, "In the early 1990s, she helped start a furniture bank to give chairs, tables and other goods to thousands of formerly homeless families. 'How can you build a new life if you have nothing to sit on?' she said."

"Power, for me, is the ability to do good things for others," she once told Harper's Bazaar magazine. "I have the means to do it, thanks to Vincent's money, and the act of giving makes me powerful inside. I would tell anyone, if you have enough money for three meals a day and you're not too busy, you ought to do something for others."



Posted by Sebastian / Lives Lived / August 13, 2007 /
 

"Seb and Jenny"

Spotted at the Apple Store on Fifth Avenue:
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Posted by Sebastian / SFGW / August 12, 2007 /
 

Scott and Max to wed next weekend

I have to give our BFF Scott Brison some credit. Two years ago the prominent gay Canadian politician announced he was getting engaged to his partner of six months, Maxime St. Pierre. At the time, I wrote in this very blog that "
I'm not against starting a betting pool to wager how long this fairy tale engagement actually lasts."

Well, I was wrong. Scott and his hunky boyfriend Maxime (shown here at the Calgary Stampede) -- who looks remarkably like me -- will finally tie the knot this coming Saturday in Nova Scotia. In doing so, he will become the first federal politician to take advantage of Canada's recent legalization of marriage for same-sex couples.

Although my invitation to the Big Gay Wedding seems to have been lost in the mail, I wish Scott and Maxime a fabulous party. And if that invitation just happens to appear before the week is out, I'll happily hop up to Halifax for what is sure to be the event of the summer for Ottawa insiders.


Posted by Sebastian / Scott Brison / August 10, 2007 /
 

First light

Posted by Sebastian / Maine / August 7, 2007 /

Last light

Posted by Sebastian / Maine / August 6, 2007 /

Maine visions

There are few places as perfect for photo-taking as North Haven. Here are a few shots I took this afternoon as I wandered the island.

Posted by Sebastian / Maine / August 5, 2007 /

An island party

I went to a good old fashioned community boat launching party this afternoon on North Haven, where the Agnes slid out of its birth berth at J.O. Brown & Sons and into the Fox Islands Thoroughfare. Unlike previous boat launches remembered fondly by those of us in attendance, no one fell overboard this time.

Posted by Sebastian / Maine / August 4, 2007 /

My first Acela ride

It's been Planes, Trains, Automobiles and Boats on my latest trip. Yesterday I flew up to Boston, but today I decided I would give Acela a whirl on the trip back home to New York. Boy what a mistake the train was! It's been years since I took Amtrak -- back in the pre-Acela days -- but I decided to give them another shot now that they have these supposedly fast, sleek trains. Fast turned out to be pretty slow. And while the train car itself was comfortable and airy and spacious, the ride along the rails was jarring and the company rather LOUD as they chatted incessantly on their cell phones.

I realized this all in the two minutes that passes between departing South Station and arriving at Back Bay Station. I actually contemplated in those two minutes the possibility of exiting the train at Back Bay and flying home instead...but I persisted and in the end, the experience did have at least a few positive aspects: the views of Long Island Sound, and the Perrier and Terra exotic vegetable chips in the cafe car. And I was able to step off the train in Manhattan and walk home.

Posted by Sebastian / Etceteras / August 1, 2007 /

Boys of Boston

One thing I miss terribly about Boston is Sister Sorel. I've not found any bar like it in New York, so last night my posse and I headed there and spent hours and hours holding court. (Before I get emails asking me what on earth I'm wearing below, I'll just say it was on sale -- 70% off + 20% off at the register! -- at Holt Renfrew last weekend. It's allegedly a very fashionable zip-up in certain circles. And as for the hair, don't ask.)

Posted by Sebastian / Boston / August 1, 2007 /

Back to Boston

I came back to Boston for a quick trip to see some of my hottest friends and had a blast. I took the water taxi from Logan (the only way to arrive), then wandered through the Public Garden, past the swan boats and into Back Bay where the city was as clean and prim and proper as ever. There was even a string quartet playing on Newbury Street; how civilized ye olde Boston remains!

The more things stay the same, the more they stay the same: Why is Francesca's on Tremont Street still unable to create a Rice Krispy square that is actually crispy? (This battle of man vs. crisped rice has been going on in the South End for at least eight years, and I'd like to see some resolution.)

Over at Jae's on Columbus, next door to my old apartment, they remembered me as soon as I walked in and the takeout guy asked where I'd been (as he should; I ate there 3-4 times a week for at least three years!). Earlier in the day, darting across Boylston by the soon-to-be Mandarin Oriental, I ran into two long lost friends.

I suppose this is where Boston excels, if not always in its friendliness then in its small community feel. You immediately feel reconnected when you're back. That said, I lived in Boston long enough to know that I needed to leave it, partially because that small town feel can come to feel stifling. But as I wandered around my old neighborhood, I admit I felt a certain sense of longing for my old apartment and my old roof deck and my old bar.

Posted by Sebastian / Boston / August 1, 2007 /


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